You can’t do it.
It’s not possible.
You can’t make it happen.
NO, NO and NO.
Nice! Pretty impressive because we are habitual to listen to these sort of statements from “some” sort of people around us. The question is, what do you do when you listen to these kinds of things which you must not listen to? Do you believe in them? Do you really trust their opinions of you? If you do, then there is a special announcement. YOU ARE NOT A HUMAN. Humans don’t do that. Sheep does. A sheep doesn’t plan, it doesn’t react, it follows the herd. But we don’t. We are students. We learn every day. We learn from positive and negative things around us. Everybody learns from positive things. No big deal. But I want you to focus on negative kinds of stuff around yourself. Yes, it is very true that you can learn from negative resources. This doesn’t mean that you are going to keep them with you.
The moment you wake up, you start seeing humans around yourself. The first human you see is YOU. So, if you really want to learn from negative things and keep them away as well, you should start from yourself. Find out the negative habits in you. Deeds that you have done, deeds that you are doing, deeds that you going to do. Filter them out. Put the good deeds on one side and bad deeds on the other. You can’t change what you have done. But if you learn from them, you can control your future deeds. Get the things into a right direction that you have done wrong. Perish all your negativity. Crumble them. And start a fresh day with full of positivity.
Now, look at the people (the major resource) around yourself. Look at their actions and words. They will give you an impression of theirs “true” identity, which they don’t see but you do. Look at those people whom you meet with every day, whom you spend most of your working hours with. They matter. Filter them out. Take out the energy drainers from the list and toss them out. Kick them out of your life. Just shout “LEAVE ME”….. They were malfunctioned. Their opinions of you were soulless and meaningless.
Always remember, you are not under their control. You are free from almost every negative pieces of stuff. Wait, did I mention the word ALMOST? Yes. Because, right now when you are reading this, you are questioning, am I really free from these kinds of stuff? Ha. Self-doubt. Self-doubt kills ideas. It can paralyze you. It holds you back from doing something great. You have to kill it. No escape route. There are many weapons that you can use. But I recommend only one thing. It is called belief system. You must have a concrete belief system that can shake the ground of self-doubt. You must say that I CAN and I WILL. It takes time but it will happen.
So, when you start doing this filtration, you may not get results immediately. Because it is a never ending process. Goi Nasu said,
“An entire sea of water can’t sink a ship unless it gets inside the ship. Similarly, the negativity of the world can’t put you down unless you allow it to get inside you.”
You will become better than your yesterday and you will be able to keep all the things away that distract you.
At last, this is for you.
Being like a naysayer is the recipe for disaster.